Anger is an emotion that can catch you by surprise, especially when you’re dealing with the aftermath of an abortion. You might feel angry at yourself, at others who were involved in your decision, or even at God. Anger can be overwhelming, often coming in waves when you least expect it, leaving you feeling exhausted
Shame is a powerful emotion. It makes you feel small, trapped, and unworthy of love or forgiveness. If you’ve experienced an abortion, the weight of shame can feel like a shadow that follows you everywhere, silencing your voice and isolating you from others. It can convince you that you’re alone in your pain, that no
Getting Involved in a Group If you are healing from a past abortion experience, you may experience a range of emotions, including isolation, guilt, grief, or shame. These feelings can be overwhelming, and the thought of sharing your story may seem intimidating. However, one of the most powerful steps toward healing is bringing your story
As we enter January and reflect on Sanctity of Human Life Month, churches often share messages about protecting and affirming the value of every life. While this is an important and meaningful message, it’s crucial that we also acknowledge those who may carry the weight of a past abortion. Unfortunately for many, the church can
For many, the holiday season brings joy, family gatherings, and cherished traditions. But for those healing from the pain of a past abortion, this time of year can also stir deep feelings of grief and sadness. As you see others celebrating family togetherness, the weight of your own loss can feel heavier, and the emotions
The journey after experiencing an abortion is deeply personal, often filled with complex emotions — grief, guilt, regret, confusion, and sometimes isolation. While each person may process their experience differently, for many, these feelings linger for long periods of time, making it hard to truly move forward. However, there is a clear message of hope
If you have not yet shared much about your abortion experience with others, it can be challenging to figure out when to open up and with whom. Maybe your experience with abortion was more recent or maybe it was years or decades ago. Starting to process this experience further may feel scary, vulnerable, or impossible
For many women, it can take years or even decades to seek help after an abortion experience. They walk through their lives managing the pain and keeping their past hidden from others. The Journal of American Physicians and Surgeons found that almost 75% of women who had an abortion felt at least subtly pressured into
Hope and healing are possible for those who have experienced abortion. At New Life Family Services, in our Conquerers program, we offer one-on-one mentoring and group sessions designed for women to address the emotional pain that can occur after an abortion experience. We offer a safe space to process all the feelings common to those
Abortion can have a substantial impact on your mental health, which deserves careful attention. If you are grappling with the aftermath of an abortion, it’s essential that you know there are practical steps that you can take to find hope and healing. Acknowledge Your Feelings No matter what emotions you are experiencing, whether it’s relief,