For many, the holiday season brings joy, family gatherings, and cherished traditions. But for those healing from the pain of a past abortion, this time of year can also stir deep feelings of grief and sadness. As you see others celebrating family togetherness, the weight of your own loss can feel heavier, and the emotions you’ve been working through might resurface.
Grief is Normal
It’s important to remember that grief is a natural part of healing, and it doesn’t have a set timeline. The holidays often magnify emotions because they are filled with expectations of joy, but they can also highlight what feels missing in our hearts. A survey completed in 2021 even indicated that 36% of Americans say they don’t feel like celebrating the holidays due to grief.
If you’re grieving the loss of a child, it’s okay to acknowledge your pain and allow yourself space to mourn.
Take Comfort
In the midst of this, take comfort in God’s promises. Scripture tells us that God is near to the brokenhearted and that He saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). He understands your sorrow, and His love for you is unchanging. You are not defined by your past, but by His grace and forgiveness.
You Are Not Alone
If the holidays bring up painful memories, know that you do not have to carry your burdens on your own. As these heavy emotions come up, feel free to contact us for resources and support. Lean on others who understand what you are going through and allow yourself to feel the peace that comes from knowing you are loved, forgiven, and never alone.
Let this Christmas be a time where you embrace the healing journey, trusting that even in your grief, God offers hope and redemption.